Monday, December 28, 2009
Randomness
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Back to the Grind . . . and Thankful
1. I'm thankful that I have the opportunity to work part time. My boss is incredibly supportive of me and my desire to successfully balance my career and my family. I really enjoy what I do and am challenged every day.
2. I'm thankful that I have a wonderful daycare provider. She even sends me email updates throughout the day. Here is today's:
"Molly is such a good baby! You are very lucky. Hopefully I didn't just jinx it!
She took a 45 minute nap after Bailey got here, ate 4 oz @ 9:15, played for a little bit and fell asleep for another 45 minutes. She ate 4 oz again at noon and just laid down for a "good" nap. The other 2 were in the swing.
Bailey is so funny. They were finishing lunch and Molly started fussing. Bailey told me to "get her a bottle, hurry." It was so cute. She is very concerned about Molly. I was burping her during her 1st bottle and she was crying a little and Bailey wanted to know what was wrong with her baby sister. She told the kids that they can't hurt her baby sister (even though she is on the table out of their reach). Once Molly starts pulling her hair and getting her toys, she probably won't be as concerned."
Isn't that awesome? Bailey loves her to pieces and I'm sure Molly will feel the same way.
3. I'm thankful that Molly has slept through the night (9 or more hours) for the past six nights straight. I know there's another growth spurt coming, but I'll take what I can get:)
4. I'm thankful that by me working (and the grace of God), Joey and I were able to pay off every ounce of debt except the house (and we're making progress on that, too)! My girls get to grow up in a home with financial peace and their parents rarely (if ever) fight about money. When things break or wear out, we can fix them with minimal disruption to our lives. Instead of being stressful or a burden, Christmas is a time where we can be generous with our family, friends, and even strangers. And there are no credit card bills to pay in January.
Wow, that was therapeutic. I better get back to work now:) I'm 15 minutes away from surviving my first day.
Will write more soon.
Cammy
Thursday, October 8, 2009
2 weeks old . . . having amnesia:)
1. I took her in for an optional weight check on Tuesday. Dr. had said since she wasn't jaundice and this wasn't my first, I only needed to come in at a month unless I had concerns. I wasn't really concerned, but more curious of her weight gain. She was born at 7 lbs 6 oz and lost only 2 oz in the first 3 days. When we weighed her on Tuesday, she was 8 lbs even. She gained 12 ounces in 11 days!
It probably wasn't a good idea to take her in period . . . when I got to the doctor's office, there were signs everywhere warning of the flu and several people in the waiting room had masks on. Scary! But, we were there less than 5 minutes and I didn't touch anything:)
2. I'm having quite a bit of amnesia about what things were like when Bailey was a newborn . . . . when she started sleeping longer, how much/often she ate, how long it took for my belly to go down. Probably a good thing since all I'll do is worry anyway. Molly's giving me 3, 3-hour stretches of sleep at night most nights. Last night wasn't so good, but I was having a hard time getting her to take a full feed - she was so sleepy, but woke up more often. I still think I managed 6-7 hours of sleep, though, and I can at least function on that.
Here's a more recent picture. Need to take more today. It's hard to remember with everything going on.
Bailey has had the hardest time adjusting of all of us. She's not "queen of the castle" anymore. I've felt quite a bit of guilt about this, but am working through those emotions. We try to do at least one thing each day that revolves around Bailey (the park, playing outside, etc) and that seems to help a lot. Here's a picture of daddy and Bailey making their first ever batch of monster cookies - she loved it!
If anyone is interested in getting together for a morning outing, I'm up for it. It gets a little lonely being in the house most of the day and the weather is going to stink this weekend!
Cammy
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Molly is here - not exactly as planned!!!
Stats and Picture . . .
Born Tuesday, September 22nd (10 days early) at 1:59 pm
Weight - 7 lbs, 6 oz (1 oz smaller than Bailey).
Length - 19 inches (1/2 inch shorter than Bailey).
We're doing great! Trying to adjust to having a newborn again. I think God really "helps" you forget some of the "difficult" and "bad" stuff - a kind of grace for new parents.
Details . . . If you are interested, here are some details of my labor and delivery (no inappropriate details - I promise!)
Last Monday was a crazy busy day - Bailey and I did our normal grocery errands, the entire computer system went down at Dillons while we we there, and I had pretty much constant Braxton-Hicks contractions all day long. Really, nothing too out of the ordinary, though.
That night, I went to bed early and Joey came up about midnight (it was the first night of season premiere week after all . . ) I told him that I'd had a couple Braxton-Hicks contractions strong enough to wake me up. No big deal, right?
Around 3:30, I woke up with my first real contraction. Didn't feel like they did with Bailey - she was born face up, so I felt most contractions in my back. These felt much different! I told Joey these were the real thing, but I had plenty of time.
Got up, paid the bills due by the first of the month (I know - I'm a little neurotic) and addressed the Thank You cards from my shower two days earlier. Contractions were still 15 minutes apart, so I decided to go into work for about an hour to take care of a few things. Joey's dad came to watch Bailey for an hour so he could take me to work (just in case). Got my work done, came home, and rested. Contractions were still 10-12 minutes apart. About 11:30, my dear friend Caressa came over to check on me (she noticed both cars were in the driveway and knew something might be up). Contractions were 8-10 minutes, but I could still walk and talk through them. She agreed that I should wait a little longer to go in
Then, noon - contractions became 5 minutes apart and very intense. I told Joey we needed to get some things together and go. We got in the car at 12:30 and arrived at the birthcare center at 12:55 - darn Kellogg construction! They checked me in right away and the charge nurse took me back to check me. At 1:05 I was 8 cm dilated and 100% effaced. She made about 20 phone calls (OB, anesthesiologist, etc), then checked me again around 1:15 - I was 10 cm complete! We had to wait about 10 minutes for the epidural because he was next door and by the time he got there, I really felt like I needed to push. My OB said I would have to hold the baby in for 20-25 minutes while the epidural took effect. Wasn't at all physically or emotionally prepared for this, but decided to go without! Started pushing about 1:40 and Molly was born less than 20 minutes later.
I won't lie - it hurt! But, she is here safe and beautiful. The best part is that the hospital recovery was so much easier than with Bailey (I had an epidural and had to push for a couple of hours since she was face up). I was able to get up on my own within the hour, nurse right away, etc.
So, she's here - all natural! Didn't know I had it in me. Will write more soon. She's a week old today. Time flies, even in early days.
Cammy
Friday, September 18, 2009
Update and Pictures
Monday, September 14, 2009
Our Funny Trip to the Doctor for a Flu Shot
A little background . . . my OB is pretty insistent that we all get the seasonal flu shot since we'll have a newborn soon and the flu seems to be hitting much earlier than usual this year. Joey and I will partake in the free flu shots from the school district, but they won't give them to children under 18.
So . . . I called last week to arrange for Bailey to have the flu mist this morning. After she got up, I told her that we were going to see Dr. Tana. She said "OK - my ear hurts." The last time we went to the doctor was several months ago due to an ear ache. Being the "creative" mother that I am, I said to try to prepare her . . . "When we get to the doctor, they are going to give you some medicine in your nose to make your ear feel better. I need to you to be very brave." She took it "hook, line, and sinker."
When we got to the office, she knew exactly where the exam rooms were, but told the nurse she needed to see how big she was first. The nurse (Julie) was really sweet and let Bailey get on the scale to take her weight. Then, Bailey led us all to the exam room.
She wanted to sit on the exam table all by herself and didn't even flinch when they gave her the flu mist. I was very proud. She got down from the table and said "Thank you Julie, my ear feels much better."
(I had to explain to Julie why she said that). We both cracked up. I think I'm going to be in trouble the next time Bailey has an ear ache - she'll be expecting medicine up her nose again!
What a funny way to start the day!
Nursery Pictures Coming Tonight
Stay tuned . . .
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
It is finished!
The nursery is next! It's about 95% done. If I could just get Joey to hang those last two shelves:) I hope to post pictures in the next couple of days.
Only one more month until my due date! Found out on Monday that I'm already dilated to 2 cm as the baby is head down - yeah!
Have a great week!
Cammy
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Bad, Bad Blogger
4. We're getting geared up for fall. I'm planning to do MAPS again at church and Bailey will be starting "school" on Friday, September 11th. OK - it's really called Kids Day Inn and it's only one day a week, but it should be fun and good for her to interact with more kids her age. It's funny . . . we have to go to "meet the teacher" day and even buy "school supplies."
5. On Friday, I'll be 35 weeks - can you believe it? Starting to get a little uncomfortable and my lovely pregnancy-induced insomnia has set in, but overall I feel wonderful. It's been so helpful that I've been able to keep up with walking 4-5 days a week. It really does make a difference. She'll be here before we know it.
6. And finally, we've picked a name. I'm not telling, but Bailey is. If you really want to know, you'll have to call and ask her. She'll tell you clear as day. 2-year olds can't keep secrets very well.
Hope you are doing well! I promise I'll do a better job updating this site in the next few weeks. Once the nursery is done and swingset is up, things should slow down a bit at the Todd household before life changes forever again.
Cammy
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Update
Pregnancy is going well. According to two of my colleagues, I'm getting REALLY big. I'm trying not to take it too personally. I agree, I have grown in the past two weeks, but no one has to tell me that!
The heat has been getting to me a bit . . . my hands and feet have been swelling a little more than with Bailey by the end of the day. Nothing serious, just a little uncomfortable.
Bailey is in an incredibly fun, yet frustrating stage. You should hear some of the things that come out of her mouth. Here's a taste . . .
"Mom, I'm coming - chill out!" - she actually told me to chill out - not sure where she got that phrase - Joey and I don't use it much.
To her aunt Julie "My mom's pregnant - she has a baby in her belly." I had no idea she even knew the word pregnant.
After accidently hitting me in the face with her cup and I let out a little scream "Mom, don't do that - you're scary."
"What's that noise - do you hear it mama, do you hear it?"
And, she's got a memory that blows my mind. A few weeks ago, we were at the neighbors' pool and she got out on the hot concrete and just froze - then started screaming because her feet were hot. Since then, she refuses to get out of the pool unless you splash a good amount of water up on the concrete. If only she would apply that memory to going poop in the potty! Oh yeah, I said I wasn't going to write about that any more:)
Have a great week!
Cammy
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Oh, Potty Training
Pregnancy is going well. I had my 24-week checkup this week. All is good. The doctor actually started talking to me about the delivery - how soon I need to get to the hospital (much sooner than last time!), my plans for pain management, etc. I know I still have a ways to go, but it is sneaking up on me. We're nowhere near ready . . . don't even have a name picked out yet.
Joey and I are hosting the member/guest golf tournament and Rolling Hills this weekend. 3 days full of golf for Joey and evening events for both of us. Should be fun!
Have a great week!
Cammy
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
22 weeks - Last round of Ottawa classes for a while . . .
Well, this week, I started my last round of classes for a while! I have two online that started on Monday and an in-person class this Saturday. I'm trying to get back into the habit of grading papers during every nap and after Bailey goes to bed . . . it's a little exhausting at times.
But, by the end of the July I will be finished and will take a much needed long break (maybe a REALLY long break) to get ready for the new baby. Say a little prayer for me that my patience stays strong.
Baby is growing and is constantly moving now. I can even feel kicks and punches on the outside. I'm trying to get Bailey to feel it, but she won't keep her hand on my stomach long enough yet. I think it might freak her out!
We've officially started week 2 of potty training with Bailey. . . have definitely made some progress this time around - but now we're trying to work on doing #2 in the toilet. She still tries to hide whenever she has to go. What is it with kids and hiding when they have to go poop? I left her alone in her room for less than 5 minutes today and what does she do? Goes into her closet, shuts the door, and poops in her pants. Patience, I know. Slow and steady wins the race!
Will write more soon.
Cammy
P.S. - thought I'd share some funny Bailey comments from the last few days. Her vocabulary is really growing.
To Daddy . . . "Mommy spanking my butt again cause I was naughty."
To Mommy . .. "Mr. Brunner (our kind neighbor) has a nice pool Mama. I think I'll go swimming tomorrow when I wake up from my nap. Ok, Mama? "
When I walked into daycare to pick her up one day (I hadn't seen her yet that day) . .. "Mommy got a new dress . . . and new shoes too!"
When leaving daycare on Monday (I think she is confused by the days because I'm working wacky days this week), "Bye-Bye Teresa - have a nice weekend!"
TOO CUTE!
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
20 weeks! We're half way there.
After finding out we're having another girl, we spent much of last week searching for a new bedding set. We settled on one that we are very excited about and can't wait to get started on the nursery.
Bailey has been in a challenging mood the past few days. Maybe it's because her cousin Charlotte is in town. She is quite the little "performer." The more people that are around, the more she feels she needs to "steal the show." It's been wearing mommy down. Even Joey had enough of her at dinner the other night.
We're gearing up at the Todd house for a busy summer - this past week we repainted our deck and have been pulling up old landscaping in preparation for a new project we hope to complete before it gets too hot. Joey's been getting a lot of golf in . . . 3 tournaments in the last 4 weeks!
That's all for now. Will write more soon!
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Week 19 - BIG Sonogram!
Just found out this morning. We're thrilled . . . even more thrilled that everything seemed to be healthy and right on schedule.
Will write more as soon as I process all of this!
Cammy
Monday, May 11, 2009
Week 18 . . . Anticipation
This past week has been filled with anticipation! We have our big (and probably only) sonogram tomorrow at 11:00 AM (Tuesday, May 12th).
Since the beginning of the pregnancy, I had a gut feeling this one's another girl. But, the last few weeks I've been having my doubts. Bailey is absolutely convinced that it's a baby sister. She won't even consider the possibility that it is a boy. Maybe this has something to do with the fact that we call Holmes (our dog) her brother. She probably has a difficult time imagining mommy growing a "Holmes" in her belly:) Joey, on the other hand, thinks it's a boy. Believe it or not, he is quite the shopper, and I think he just wants to shop for something different for a change - boy stuff! So, would you bet on a mommy and 2-year-old's intuition or daddy's? Only time will tell . . . in less than 24 hours we will know if the baby decides to cooperate and not be shy. Joey says we will be making an appointment at Baby Waves for another sonogram if we don't find out. We are both very anxious to know so we can decorate the nursery, pick out names, etc.
We had a great mother's day. Went to church and watched two of our favorite babies being dedicated. Then, we had my parents over for a brunch. In the evening, we went to dinner and then went to see Joey's family for a while. It was very relaxing.
Bailey got me another year of zoo membership for mother's day. Joey learned a tough lesson with this one . . . never take a 2-year-old to the zoo if you aren't going inside!!!!!!! They went to buy the membership at the office on Saturday morning and Bailey threw a fit when she realized that she didn't get to go see the penguins and gorillas. I guess she kept saying "I NEED the zoo daddy, I NEED it." She also went to Kay Wiggins and made me a bracelet. She picked out all of the beads herself. The ladies that worked there didn't quite know what to think, but said it turned out much better than they thought it would. It's very colorful!!!!
Hope everyone has a great week. I'll try to post tomorrow after the sonogram and let everyone know the results.
Cammy
Sunday, May 3, 2009
Week 17
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Week 15
We just got back from a fantastic weekend in Kansas City with friends. Bailey stayed with grandma and grandpa and had a great time. We made it back on Saturday to spend Easter with Bailey. She could care less that we had our Easter Egg Hunt indoors. She loved the jelly beans all the same.
I'll post our Easter pictures soon. Just trying to catch up from being sick and being gone. I have another Dr. Appointment next week and will schedule my 18-20 week sonogram at that time. Joey and I are praying hard that the baby cooperates so we can find out the gender.
My gut says girl, his says boy. I guess only time will tell. Then, the real work begins.
Cammy
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Week 13
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Here We Go Again . . .
How's this for a first post? Bailey wants to share with you some exciting news . . . she's going to be a big sister! She's very excited, but a little nervous. Every time I ask her, she's certain that it's a baby girl. I guess we'll have to wait and see.
So, here we go again. I'm about 12 1/2 weeks - almost through the first trimester. I've seen and heard the baby's heartbeat via sonogram around 8 weeks and just yesterday heard the heartbeat via Doppler. It's just as amazing the second time around. I had a rough 4 weeks or so (from about 6 weeks to about 10 weeks) with morning sickness and exhaustion - the same time Joey was in the car accident and Bailey had that horrible stomach bug. Needless to say, it was a little stressful. But, I'm getting my energy back day by day and am so looking forward to the second trimester. I'm planning to tell people at work tomorrow - I think a few people may be a little suspicious due to my changing bathroom habits! The only people who know up until this point are our parents, siblings, and neighbors Caressa and RJ. Caressa knew right away - even before I went to the doctor - she just knows me too well. And, you should have seen how fast RJ ran to the corner when he heard the accident Joey was in. He was so worried I was in the car!
I changed OB's this time around due to location - My family practice doctor recommended a man in the practice right next door to Wesley Birthcare Center. I was a little nervous about having a male OB doctor, but absolutely love him. I would recommend him to anyone! He makes you feel like the only patient in the world. I think he sat in the room and just asked me questions and talked to me for over 20 minutes at my first visit.
The official due date is October 3rd, but even at 8 weeks, I was measuring a day or two early, so I've just been telling people the first of October. October is going to get even busier for us, with my birthday, Joey's birthday, and our five year wedding anniversary this year. God is so good.
I hope you are well - will write more soon!